The Best News Ever to Share!

So i have exciting news to share with y’all. WE CLOSED THE DISTANCE TODAY.
AFTER 22.5 months  & a week apart.
I’m proud as fuck to say we are LDR NO MORE!

I want to say keep the faith & as always fight the distance because in the end the distance is temporary,but your love is permanent. I will still be on here blogging about life with J & I after the LDR.

I look forward to all of y’all joining us on our new journey together. This is the ultimate bliss to what feels like the longest journey ever.

6/12/15—->distance began 253 miles apart
5/6/17—->distance closed





I’m so grateful for a new week. J had the flu a majority of last week since he returned to Louisiana. Having the monthly vistor and trying to readjust to being apart again has been a bit rough on my end. The distance makes you argue over the tiniest things y’all add in the fact that I can be ultra sensitive it feels like a enotional train wreak. I’m hoping this week will be a bit more smoother and im way less emotional. I have my days where I miss him so much my heart aches. I know he is worth the rough days & the small rough patches we face apart. I can’t wait to be with him again. I’m grateful for time passing because im a week closer to when I will see him again. I’m grateful for time changing minds, healing hurts, and bringing us that much closer to the next time we are reunited. Sometimes we must be grateful, grateful for love despite ourselves.

Keep the faith & fight the distance-


A Much Needed Visit.

So we spent a wonderful 8 days together. It was so needed after what felt like an eternity apart. It felt so good to feel his arms wrapped around me when we hugged after so many months apart. The kiss was magical. We spent alot of quality time together. We went to the beach, park, out to eat, shopping and the movies while he was here. He even bought me my favorite lotion I wanted from the mall we went to when he was here & i’m waiting on it to arrive in the mail as we speak. Of course I cried a few times before he left, totally dreaded having to say see you soon again. We got to spend a extra hour together before he left and it was awesome taking some last pictures together, just enjoying each other’s company.

I’m so grateful for the time we got to spend together & just be us and feel like a real couple if only for a week and a day. I miss him so much since he left on Saturday evening. All in all that visit was definitely much needed and just made me feel so much more connected and in love with him than before. We are stronger now because of our extended time apart before this visit.


Love Over Distance.

I can’t believe after 3.5 month & 2days plus 15 hours or less I will finally be seeing J again for our 10th visit today.December 29th seems eternities away and as pablo neurado says all the nights apart have lead to this one night together….or something to that effect.

It may be months or longer than expected that you have to wait at times, but the wait will end…even if temporary…& you will bask in the elated joy of once again having your whole heart complete & feeling everything is right with the world all because your love survived the distance…once more & you, my friend have survived the despite…even through the day you could’nt even phatom how you ever could.

Love has conquered all yet again.


22 months Yippe!

Today marks 22 months in LDR with J. I’m so looking forward to spending time with him on Saturday & the whole week he will be here. It’s full of ups & downs but it’s worth it y’all. I can’t wait to be reunited soon & I’m looking forward to more months ahead for us.

How long have y’all been in a LDR?


Keep the faith & fight the distance y’all.


So Much To Do In So Little Time.👫⏰

Hey Y’all!

So in 4 days & a wake up & some hours into the evening I will be seeing my love again after over 3.5 months apart this go-round. I must say im definitely ecstatic about it reuniting with him soon. God knows alot has transpired since we last saw eachother, and what I wouldnt do at this point to be in his arms.

I have so much to do between now & actually reuniting with him it’s crazy. For starters I have home work which if im lucky will take me til tomorrow or mid-week at the latest. Thrusday I have a very important appointment then Friday i have a hair appointment. Saturday AM i’m going to do any last minute things like shave , triple check the guest room is in order for him etc.

So as you can tell my week is filled with all sorts of fun stuff to keep me busy, not to mention traveling into town to pick him up & being on time, which I usually ebd up being an hour early at least. I already have an outfit picked out with shoes & a purse.

So my week is definitely going to fly by…I can’t wait to see him Saturday evening.


10 DAYS!

This AM I woke up to the best webcam call EVER! He officially got his ticket today & we will FINALLY be seeing each other again after over 3.5 months apart. I so can’t wait to be his arms again & hug him so tight. It has been a long time coming feels like. I just had to share my good news. Good things definitely come to those who wait y’all!!!!

10 days away from being with my love for a whole week!!!!!